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- SECRETS TO
SUCCESS & POWER
Prepare Your Mind:
1) Be open to everything and attached to nothing.
2) Understand that there are no justified resentments in life.
3) Embracing silence it will help you to become whole and ot alone
4) Meditation is is the only way to truly come to know your Source.
5) Respect and practice meditation
6) Know you can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it.
7) Treating yourself as if you already are what you'd like to become
8) Use your creativity and imagination
REMEMBER: Repetition is the mother of skill;
Memorize and
Use the Following:
The First Secret
Have a Mind That Is Open to Everything and Attached to Nothing
The Second Secret
Don't Die with Your Music Still in You
The Third Secret
You Can't Give Away What You Don't Have
The Fourth Secret
Embrace Silence
The Fifth Secret
Give Up Your Personal History
The Sixth Secret
You Can't Solve a Problem with the Same Mind That Created It
The Seventh Secret
There Are No Justified Resentments
The Eighth Secret
Treat Yourself As If You Already Are What You'd Like to Be
The Ninth Secret
Treasure Your Divinity
The Tenth Secret
Wisdom Is Avoiding All Thoughts That Weaken You
- Author Dr. Wayn Dyer - Transpersonal Psychologist
Excerpt: The First Secret
Have a Mind That Is Open to Everything and Attached to Nothing
Having a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing sounds
easy until you think about how much conditioning has taken place in your
life, and how many of your current thoughts were influenced by geography,
the religious beliefs of your ancestors, the color of your skin, the shape
of your eyes, the political orientation of your parents, your size, your
gender, the schools that were selected for you, and the vocation of your
great-grandparents, to list only some possibilities. You showed up here as
a tiny infant capable of an infinite number of potentialities. Many of
your choices remain unexplored because of a hopefully well-intentioned
conditioning program designed to make you fit the culture of your
caretakers. You probably had next to no opportunity to disagree with the
cultural and societal arrangements made for your life.
There may have been some adults who encouraged you to have an open mind,
but if you're honest with yourself, you know that your philosophy of life,
your religious beliefs, your manner of dress, and your language are a
function of what your tribe (and its heritage) determined was right for
you. If you made any fuss about going against this preordained
conditioning, you probably heard even stronger voices insisting that you
get back in line and do things the way they have "always been done."
Fitting in superseded having a mind that was open to new ideas.
If your parents were Jewish, it's unlikely that you were raised to honor
and respect the Muslim religion, and vice versa. If both your parents were
Republicans, it's improbable that you heard the virtues of the Democratic
Party extolled. Whatever the reasons our ancestors may have had for not
having open minds, it's true that they inhabited a much less populated
world than we do. In today's overpopulated world, we simply cannot
continue to live with those old styles of closed-mindedness. I urge you to
open your mind to all possibilities, to resist any efforts to be
pigeonholed, and to refuse to allow pessimism into your consciousness.
Having a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing seems to
me to be one of the most basic principles that you can adopt to contribute
to individual and world peace.
No One Knows Enough to Be a Pessimist
Find an opportunity to observe a tiny little green sprout emerging from a
seed. When you do, allow yourself to feel the awe of what you're seeing. A
famous poet named Rumi observed, "Sell your cleverness and purchase
bewilderment." The scene of an emerging sprout represents the beginning of
life. No one on this planet has even a tiny clue as to how all of this
works. What is that creative spark that causes the life to sprout? What
created the observer, the consciousness, the observation, and perception
itself? The questions are endless.
A short while ago, Earthlings in the space program were moving a tiny
vehicle on Mars via remote control. Invisible signals took ten minutes to
travel through space and arrived to make right turns and instruct a scoop
to pick up some Martian real estate to examine. We all marvel at such
technological feats. But think about it for a moment. In an endless
universe, Mars, our closest neighbor, is the equivalent of moving a
billionth of an inch across the page you're reading! We move a little
vehicle on a neighbor next door and we're so impressed with ourselves.
There are billions and billions of planets, objects, and stars in our
galaxy alone, and there are uncountable billions of galaxies out there. We
are a speck in an incomprehensibly vast universe that has no end to it.
Think about this: If we found the end, would there be a wall at the edge
of the universe? If so, who built it? Even more perplexing, what's on the
other side of the wall, and how thick is it?
How can anyone be a pessimist in a world where we know so little? A heart
starts beating inside a mother's womb a few weeks after conception, and
it's a total mystery to everyone on our planet. In comparison to what
there is to know, we are only embryos. Keep this in mind whenever you
encounter those who are absolutely certain that there's only one way to do
something.
Resist being a pessimist. Resist with all your might, because we hardly
know anything at all in comparison with what there is to know. Can you
imagine what a pessimist who lived only 200 years ago would think about
the world we live in? Airplanes, electricity, automobiles, television,
remote controls, the Internet, fax machines, telephones, cellular phones,
and so on. All because of that spark of open-mindedness that allowed
progress, growth, and creativity to flourish.
And what of the future and all of your tomorrows? Can you picture faxing
yourself back to the 14th century, flying without machines, telepathically
communicating, de-molecularizing yourself and rearranging yourself on
another galaxy, or cloning a sheep from a photograph of a sheep? An open
mind allows you to explore and create and grow. A closed mind seals off
any such creative explanation. Remember that progress would be impossible
if we always did things the way we always have. The ability to participate
in miracles - true miracles in your life - happens when you open your mind
to your limitless potential.
The Miracle Mind-set
Refuse to allow yourself to have low expectations about what you're
capable of creating. As Michelangelo suggested, the greater danger is not
that your hopes are too high and you fail to reach them; it's that they're
too low and you do. Have within you an imaginary candle flame that burns
brightly regardless of what goes before you. Let this inner flame
represent for you the idea that you're capable of manifesting miracles in
your life.
In every single case of a person experiencing a spontaneous healing or
overcoming something that was considered to be impossible, the individual
went through a complete reversal of personality. They actually rewrote
their own agreement with reality. To experience Godlike spontaneous
miracles, you must have a sense of yourself as Godlike. The Scriptures
say, "With God all things are possible." Now tell me, what does that leave
out? A mind that's open to everything means being peaceful, radiating
love, practicing forgiveness, being generous, respecting all life, and
most important, visualizing yourself as capable of doing anything that you
can conceive of in your mind and heart. Whatever universal law that has
ever been utilized to manifest a miracle any where, any time, and in any
person is still on the books. It has never been repealed, and it never
will be. You possess the same energy, the same God-consciousness, to be a
miracle worker - but only if you truly believe and know it within
yourself.
Understand that what you think about expands ("As a man thinketh, so is
he"). If your thoughts are filled with doubt and you have a closed mind,
you will of necessity act upon those closed-mind doubts, and you'll see
evidence of your thinking virtually everywhere you are. On the other hand,
should you decide (make no mistake about this, it is a choice) to have a
mind that's open to everything, then you'll act upon that inner energy,
and you'll be the creator as well as the recipient of miracles wherever
you are. You will experience what Walt Whitman meant when he wrote, "To
me, every cubic inch of space is a miracle."
What Being Open to Everything Means
Everything means just what it says. No exceptions. When someone suggests
something to you that conflicts with your conditioning, rather than
responding with, "That's ridiculous; we all know that's impossible," say,
"I've never considered that before. I'll think about it." Open yourself up
to the spiritual ideas of all people, and listen with an open mind to
crazy schemes and ideas that seem at first to be outrageous. If someone
suggests that crystals can cure hemorrhoids, that natural herbs can lower
cholesterol, that people will eventually be able to breathe underwater, or
that levitation is possible - listen, and be curious.
Let go of your attachments to what you've been trained to believe. Open
your mind to all possibilities, because whether you believe something is
possible or impossible, either way you'll be right. How can that be true?
Your agreement with reality and all that's possible determines what you'll
become. If you're convinced that you can't become wealthy, famous,
artistic, a professional athlete, a great singer, or whatever, you will
act upon that inner conviction that prevents you from manifesting what
you'd really like. All that you'll get from your effort is being right.
When you need to be right, you're attached to your conditioned reflex of
the way things are and always have been; and you assume they will always
be.
Releasing Your Attachments
This first secret has two components: (1) a mind that is open to
everything, and (2) a mind that is attached to nothing. Your attachments
are the source of all your problems. The need to be right, to possess
someone or something, to win at all costs, to be viewed by others as
superior - these are all attachments. The open mind resists these
attachments and consequently experiences inner peace and success.
To release attachments, you have to make a shift in how you view yourself.
If your primary identification is with your body and your possessions,
your ego is the dominant force in your life. If you can tame your ego
sufficiently, you'll call upon your spirit to be the guiding force in your
life. As a spiritual being, you can observe your body and be a
compassionate witness to your existence. Your spiritual aspect sees the
folly of attachments because your spiritual self is an infinite soul.
Nothing can make you happy or successful. These are inner constructs that
you bring to your world, rather than what you receive from it.
If you think peaceful thoughts, you'll feel peaceful emotions, and that's
what you'll bring to every life situation. If you're attached to being
right or absolutely need something in order to be at peace or to be
successful, you'll live a life of striving yet never arriving.
It's possible to have a burning desire yet not have attachments. You can
have an inner vision of what you intend to manifest and still detach
yourself from the outcome. How? Consider this observation in A Course in
Miracles: "Infinite patience produces immediate results." It sounds like a
paradox, doesn't it? Infinite patience implies an absolute certainty that
what you'd like to manifest will indeed show up, in perfect order, and
exactly on time. The immediate result you receive from this inner knowing
is a sense of peace. When you detach from the outcome, you're at peace,
and you'll ultimately see the fruits of your convictions.
Suppose you had a choice between two magic wands. With Wand A, you can
have any physical thing you desire by simply waving it. With Wand B, you
can have a sense of peace for the rest of your life regardless of what
circumstances arise. Which would you pick? A guarantee of stuff, or inner
peace for the remainder of your life? If you opt for peace, then you
already have Wand B. Simply have a mind that is open to everything but
attached to nothing. Let it all come and go as it will. Enjoy it all, but
never make your happiness or success dependent on an attachment to any
thing, any place, and particularly, any person.
In all of your relationships, if you can love someone enough to allow them
to be exactly what they choose to be - without any expectations or
attachments from you - you'll know true peace in your lifetime. True love
means you love a person for what they are, not for what you think they
should be. This is an open mind - and an absence of attachment.
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